If you could do it over, would you marry your dh?

[hindsight]

And, what do you do if the answer is no?

yes I would.

And it's our 5th anniversary today

Yes, in a heartbeat.

Would have a different wedding though, and make sure I got what I wanted rather than having to keep everyone else happy!

In a shot.

Yes. In fact I'd like to do it again once the kids have grown and gone and we regain time and room for us.

Definitely. But I'd make sure the wedding cake didn't get cut up and served to the other wedding that was taking place in the same venue at the same time

if i'd had a crystal ball and could see what the first 2 years of married life would bring........

no

btw, it's our 2nd anniversary at the end of march!

i love him to bits, i wouldn't change our dd for the world but i've ended up a single married parent with none of the advantages of either single or married.

his depression is crippling and i just wish i could have the wonderful man i married back.

i'm probably ashamed to say, if i'd seen his depression, the financial ruin, the heartache of his absence and the stress of it all i'd have probably run a mile!

yes I would, because it gave me this life and these dss. I wouldn't want things to be any different and he is a good dh and father.

Yes

In fact I occasionally think of divorcing him just so we can have all the fun of getting married again, but would never do something as cringworthy (imo) as renewing vows

Yes

There's an episode of the Simpsons where Homer does that, CD.

Am not the marrying type myself.

soph did you like my imo

I have learned something today you see...

definitely

Right at this moment, the answer is no. I'd have followed my first instinct the first time i saw him lose his temper and walked away.

If i could undo it and still have my son, that'd make me happy.

Yes, I would.

In a flash!

yes, I reckon I would and I'd do it the same way (in a registry office, on our own, no family just close friends to witness)

I probably wouldn't do it again on the day we moved house and when dd was 4 months old (so I was still v tubby and covered in baby sick)

Yes, both times. Dh1 may not have been the man for me but we're friends, have a lovely ds together and I'm still very close to his wonderful family. So I wouldn't change that,

and dh2 am still married to and have dd with and I wouldn't change that either.

Absolutely 100%.
Same wedding, same honeymoon, same debt - everything!

yes, nobody else would have me!

Absolutely {shouting from the rooftop}

absolutely definately

and I hope to Christ he's still marry me!!