All those that married their "first" , have you ever wondered what it would be like with someone else????

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cos i know i have.

only in an abstract way iyswim......

Oddly enough, no. I had had boyfriends before, though dh was the first man I slept with, so I suppose I could compare necking, but I can't even begin to imagine fancying someone so much that I would want to sleep with htem, let alone actually doing it.

bump

No... I don't think so... no.

Random Johnny Depp fantasies, but not what it would be like in "ooh he's someone else" kind of way iyswim

I take my hat off to those who are happy to have and have only ever had one man.

frequently. i wonder if i hadn't been so impressed by 9 o' levels and got my own life together. what middle class tory voting suburb i would be in now.

clearly everything acheved in our lives is through me making it happen - so why the fuck i had these delusions of him being my 'ticket out' of my insane morbidly depressed hearing voices phycho mother - fuc knows.

if i only knew then that you could board away at uni my life would have been totally different.

i would have had more money but probably with some anally retentive twat and have much the same problems.

so moral of the story is.

erm there isn't one

lol MoH - not really a hat takey off event here... met him at 17, only my second proper boyfriend (the first I wasn't with long enough to do anything!!), we fell in love and haven't split up....

Think its just a matter of timing

nope! i knew i was going to marry DH from very early on in our relationship, thats why i had sex with him, i only ever wanted to sleep with one person.

Had offers in the past but they weren't the right bloke!

Sometimes!
But not enough to want to do anything about it!

I did marry my first.

Then I divorced her.

And married again.

So I know what it's like with someone else.

Yes but only in a "if I ever lost dh, would I find anyone else" kind of way. Really don't like thinking about that too much because it would mean I didn't have dh anymore

I married my first - been together 17 years now (since we were 16 and met at school); married 8 years. Have never been curious TBH. Never felt the need!