Hiya, recently i am noticing that once kids are in bed, by which time i am knackered, i am in awful mood and start petty fights with dh just to vent off all the build up of stress which would have accumulated during the day. since children started school i have tried to be as organized as possible so that i ease the anxiousness of worrying that i will forget something.
i work full time and try to keep on top of the house and cook decent meals/lunches. dh helps out and is really hands on with the children. but this thing is bugging me because I've realized that most of the time once i've let off steam, i calm down, but obviously hubby is worked up by all the nasty stuff that comes out of my mouth and so i end up ruining the bit of time we have for each other at night and we sleep without making up. is anyone out there going through the same thing? i've tried trying to link with the cycle, and sometimes i notice that round about the middle of my monthly cycle i get really irrational.