I have been with my DP for around 2 years, he has residency of his 2 kids from a previous relationship and I have a DD of my own. We don't yet live together simply because I could not stand being near his kids any more than I have to, at the moment I sleep at his house one weekend and he sleeps here the weekend after. When I stay there his kids are wild, they're 2 boys aged 5 and 7 and they have no discipline at all, whenever they play up DP laughs hysterically at them.
They make comments regarding my weight calling me "big belly" and "biggie" etc, poke fun at my appearance, dive on me when I have hot drinks (this has caused me to scold myself once already), they throw things at me, cough in my face and in a morning they dive on the bed making sure they land on me and jump around on me threatning to "fart" on my face etc, last weekend one of them even held a pillow over my face. DP was just laughing hysterically and I've caught him actually encouraging them telling them to come and "cuddle" me which he knows ends up with them diving on me and doing their best to hurt me.
At the weekend we were in Asda and it was packed out, I seperated from them for a few minutes and across the ailes I could see DP laughing and whispering to his kids and with that they came charging upto me shouting "big belly" at the tops of their voices, I was really embarrassed as everyone automatically looked at me. They did this from across the road once too.
How do I get through to DP that his kids are not funny, he isnt funny and if it continiues they're going to end up hurting someone?