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Can't find the words to discuss improving things in the bedroom

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RainbowBriteRules · 25/09/2016 23:32

Am regular poster on a rarely used name. Not been on here long enough to post in sex. Recently for some reason I have been keener on sex than usual. I am usually a reluctant once a week-er but am thinking about it a lot more at the moment. I have a lovely DH and apart from a weird work crush which fizzled out within a few days I only want him.

I know I am being silly but I can't figure out how to start the conversation about wanting to have a lot more sex. I have ordered a vibrator so I can discover what I like and am feeling embarassment about this as if sex is something to be embarrassed by. I think he will be keen to have a more active sex life but I feel so awkward discussing it. Am I just being silly? Any conversation starters? Or am I over analysing this? Has anyone rekindled their sex life and was it by talk or action? Feel I am missing out on good sex! When we do have it, it's usually good.

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RainbowBriteRules · 26/09/2016 16:08

Thanks for all your advice. I will try to relax about it all while desperately hoping period arrives on Monday. Have put in an order to love honey. It's meant to arrive on Wednesday. Conveniently I have an extremely rare afternoon to myself on Wednesday...

It had better bloody arrive Grin .

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TheNaze73 · 26/09/2016 16:40

Good for you Rainbow Enjoy Smile

RainbowBriteRules · 28/09/2016 15:06

Just came back on here to say thanks everyone. Have opened my order and spent some quality time with myself Grin. Seriously think I may have been asleep for most of my adult life. Will not be sharing the toy Grin but will definitely be shagging DH a bit more as advised Grin. Will stop over sharing now!

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BastardGoDarkly · 28/09/2016 15:19
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Guiltypleasures001 · 28/09/2016 19:00
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