About three years ago I fell for a guy that I knew through work; we dated for a few months then he ended it and moved away for a new job. I was devastated for ages and I guess I always thought of him as the one that got away. Throughout my next relationship I held a candle to him and constantly compared and it probably contributed to the break up.
Recently this guy got back in touch and we ended up meeting on Friday evening. I was really excited about it but when we met up I felt kind of flat. I was surprised to find that I don't fancy him so much anymore... We ended up sleeping together but still the spark had gone (for me).
I don't think his intentions were to get back with me but he did tell me he hasn't slept with anyone else since me which I find slightly odd.
Am I weird for feeling upset/strange about the whole thing? I have recently broken up with another man who I was really into and now I feel even more sad about that because it's highlighted to me how much of a spark we had.