NC for this as I'm feeling quite ashamed about the whole situation. Please dont judge.
So I met him online over 3 years ago and we had a few weeks fling, no hard feelings it fizzled out, mainly due to me being busy and not in the state for anything regular at the time. He kept in touch, sending me messages every couple months like how you doing, I miss you, how you been etc. I was always very removed but polite replying though I was very honest with him saying that I am seeing someone at the moment and I am happy and I am not interested in meeting up. His replies were like oh lucky him, I really wish we were a couple etc. Fair to mention that we were never a couple, it was just a fling, we didn't go out, we didn't spend quality time together, its was just psychical. He was respectful though and wasn't suggesting I should see him behind my BF back or anything.
In May this year he txt again, I was single and I told him I was. Immediately he ws like we need to meet up, this is his chance etc, we start to talk everyday, I was getting an impression that he changed, he was talking he needs to settle down, he missed me, he never met anyone like me etc. Whilst it was nice and I wanted to believe it, I still remembered from before that he was not interested in anything else than my body. I told him that, he denied and said this time it will be different. anyway I agreed to meet up. we had a cosy night in and obviously DTD-d, we are not quite on the same page in the bedroom and I did address the issue as I didn't see myself being long term with it. he said he needs time. Over time nothing changed, I was still not happy and not really enjoying, he from the other hand was saying that the sex is amazing, that I am amazing etc. when I subtly reminded him what the issue was, he said I should give him time. well, I dont want to give him anymore time. tried to break it off few times, he always says thats too early, that I should give it more time and test it. I know I dont wanna carry on. we spoke about our fantasies casually, next thing I know he created us a profile on swingers website, I want to take my pics off now. Those are not face pics but still. I got all login details so I could do it anytime but I also want to just send one txt ending the whole thing. I was trying to cool off things and been NC for the whole week but it didnt quite worked. He is texting me all day today asking if I still want to see him so I cant drag it and avoid answer anymore.
sorry it came out long
please suggest what do I txt him, as my txts to end it before didnt work.