My mum is quite an emotional person and can't be quite selfish too - there's a huge back story to this but a lot of people would've walked away from my mum if they were in my shoes. My DB and I have to walk on eggshells around her as so not to upset her.
We recently went on holiday together and she got upset because I kept telling her dog off for jumping up and knocking my toddler over, since then she has been distant, no contact unless I initiate it and only yes or no answers when we do speak.
She had to pop over to watch my kids on Friday while I had a Drs appointment and everything was fine. I spoke to her on Saturday and she was telling me that she felt unwell (this often happens when I have done things to upset her followed by lots of ignoring from her) I have been trying to contact her to make sure that she is okay but she hasn't answered any calls or rang me back. My DB has also heard nothing from her but doesn't seem to be worried as she does this to him often.
I'm tempted to ring her work to make sure that she has made it in today, I'm obviously worried as the last time I heard from her she said she felt unwell but I know she will be fuming if she is fine and I have bothered her at work.
Wwyd? Shall I just call and if she is angry, explain that I was worried and all she needed to do was let me know that she was okay and that it isn't fair to let people worry.