Arse licking friend is making me vomit ...

[Boomshackalacka]

I'm a grown woman I shouldn't get annoyed but here I am.
I need to vent and be a immature teenager just for 5 minutes.
Ok..I've been friends with (let's call her Susan) for 12 years..about 4 years ago she made some new friends through work.
She is so far up their arses it's a wonder her nose isn't brown.
We organised a trip and planned to drive (me and her friends ) they told us last minute they weren't driving and me and Susan would have to make other arrangements as they had already booked their train ticket.
I was annoyed and if I had done that Susan would of been livid but because it was them her response was "oh that's fine hunni don't worry hunni,not a problem hunni"

We met on the day and Susan says to them "oh girls you look fabulous,where is your dress from?its amazing"
Now I know her well enough to know she wouldn't wear that dress out even on Halloween never mind normal day to day.
Everthing and I mean "everthing" they post on Facebook she likes ..yet she never likes anything of mine.
They post pictures of themselves and she's all over it.
She wouldn't speak to them the same as she speaks to me.
Yesterday I had a problem and I text her and her response was "so what" "sorry I'm too busy" if it's not that it's " anyway got to wash the dishes"
Unless it's about her she doesn't care of them.

Now today I went to a show at the empire with another friend and her two friends were there and she wrote on Facebook have fun girls yet nothing to me.
I know I sound stupid but that just shows what she is like to me.
I'm getting so close to saying stuff you,I'm done.
She constantly try's to be little me and she's short with me but them she wouldn't dare..she shits herself if she thinks she's upset them.
Why treat me like shit and the queen bees...well like queens.

Susan is a fanny dont be like susan drop her i had a susan in my life its really upsetting my susan would still contact me when she wanted something bugger that she wasnt bothered about me.

Sadly, I bet her new friends are laughing at her antics and desperation to be 'in' with them, they certainly don't like her or think as much of her as she does of them.

If you hang around OP you will no doubt have to pick up the pieces when Susan realises the above. Personally, I would distance myself from Susan, don't be so readily available, change what she can see on your FB, arrange things and go places with others, don't expect anything from Susan and you won't be disappointed.

TRIM HER! I don't think she is good friend - and you will realise this over time.

I'd cut all contact with her immediately.
she's a user and you're her fall-back friend.
you deserve better than this surely?

Susan already has you, her backbone, shes comfortable with you, she can burden you with her problems and weigh you down with the mundane stuff. SHe doesn't feel the need to like your pictures or do anything out of the ordinary because she's become complacent with the friendship. She just assumes you'll always be around and she has to put very little effort in. Distance yourself and give her food for thought, make her think why she's not heard from you, be awkward, anything that gets her attention and makes her focus on your behaviour.Then, tell her exactly how you feel and don't let her dismiss your feelings.

Dump the friend. Get more positive. Attract better friends.