I've been seeing a guy I've known for a number of years for about 4 months now, but I know things aren't right and I need some strength to end the relationship. I'd really appreciate some feedback. Firstly he never answers any texts I send. We never go out together anywhere and I see him once every 2 weeks if I'm lucky and that's just for sex, he stays maybe 2 hours then leaves again. I asked if he wanted to meet for coffee one day and he said no, he said that unless we could sleep together he didn't want to see me. I have to sit and wait for him to contact me. He says he loves me, but I don't understand how any of this can be love. I've never felt so worthless or hurt and I know the only person who can stop all this is me. Please can I have your comments, no matter how harsh they are I'd appreciate the words