I've NC for this one but for the Past year certain stuff my DH has done has begun too concern me. We have 1 DC.
- I didn't want sex and he kept trying to start it I said no. He then told me to fuck off and that I'm boring. When I told him how I felt apparently I need to get a sense of humour
- we had an argument over something wedding related and he shoves the phone in my face and shouted " fucking cancel it all now"
- he has lunged towards me in an argument and when I made him leave and told him he scared me he told me to not be pathetic.
- and just now had a row over housework ended up with him raising his voice telling me I'm a cunt and he isn't no dickhead of the street so don't treat him like one.
It infuriates him more If i "answer back" and have my own opinion it's like he has always got to be right.
He will always end up apologising but I'm getting tired of it now of constantly feeling like I'm walking on egg shells. I've tried talking to him and it's good for a while and then the tiniest thing will make him explode.
I know what I need to do, but I suppose I'm hoping there's a magic a sentence I can say to make him be how he use to be.
I know he'd refuse to leave the house, and I have no friends or family and he's the breadwinner.