Been together with OH for 2 years. We have a 11 week old baby.
When we first got together we would have a lot of sex like any couple. He would initiate it as well as me and would seem really up for it.
He went on holiday a few weeks after we had got together, come back and he would initiate now and then but he said he felt depressed living with his cousin so didn't feel like it, so I backed off being thoughtful of his feelings.
He moved out of there and lived with a friend. And we now live together. He was a million times happier not living with his cousin but the sex never picked up again. I always initiate sex now, he mocks saying I always bug him for it. He never says anything sexual.
When I became pregnant we stopped having sex when I was around 4 months. He said he found it odd which I understand some men do. We had sex for the first time again last night which I initiated again even though I made it clear I was ready. He just doesn't seem bothered.
There are other issues too and I have a feeling he is messaging another girl atm. What would your opinions be? I'm just so tired of being the one to try and most of the time be rejected
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OH never initiates- advice please
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MidnightStars · 08/09/2016 05:26
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