Background to this is that I have AS - I don't really have many female friends at all except from childhood and it's as much as I can manage to meet up with someone for a coffee once a month. I'm used to being on the fringes of things because I'm a bit 'other'. I remember going on a hen week and it was the most stressful thing for me ever.
I met a parent of my DC at school and she seemed to take a real liking to me and was always telling me how much she likes me and texted / called me a lot. I thought it was way too good to be true. I do have various issues in my life and I wondered whether she might be a fixer. But generally I liked the vibe I got from her and we seemed to get on really well.
Over the holidays I haven't seen her very much but she recently sent me a text saying she has met a new friend on holiday who she really likes and since then she doesn't really respond much to my texts. I kind of knew this might happen eventually because I don't really fit into normal women friendship groups but I do feel sad about it. Are there people who just want to be friends because they are 'fixers'? I do have quite a difficult life which I won't outline because it would out me.