My very lovely DM has had a rough time of it lately. She is in the UK but I'm overseas but my dbro is there. She has depression though Ai wouldn't be surprised if this lifts once she leaves.
Over the past 72 hours her h has become increasingly erratic. He has grabbed her, restrained her, ranted at her and been generally abusive. He has some health issues, had been unable to sleep for 48 hours, is in a lot of pain and has a family back ground of mental health problems and is very isolated (no friends). He is also a hoarder as was his deceased wife. He won't let mum get rid of anything and the house is very unpleasant. He works from home and has been ranting at clients on the phone.
My dbro popped over whilst he was in the area and witnessed all of this behaviour. To cut a long story short after he left mum stopped answering he phone bad dbro called the police. Police broke in to find mum being restrained and very distressed and dbro came back, got mum and is taking her to his house. They called th mental health people re her h I think
She has her passport, driving license and pet and that's it. We are hoping she will come visit us here for some time and then re asses.
Does anyone have any nice, kind, practical advice for Dmum in the short term?
My father was abusive physically, financially and emotionally. She will not (her words) put up with any of it again.
Police have offered to be there whilst she collects more stuff.