I'm drinking... I'm sorry
Having teenager issues which are driving me to the grave. Prescriptive drugs (codiene) packets found under his pillow after weed use discovered...
Am so trying to deal with that but my partner seems to back up my child ..., great in one sense but demoralising in another.
OH grew up in a different town than me... To sum it up I guess you would class me as a little snobby. The village I grew up in was my pad... I knew everyone and I knew 'the patch'.
Moved into my partners 'patch' five years ago... Including moving my kids school. My son is now 15yrs. I found out he has smoked and sold weed: thought I had dealt with all of that.... Gave him an ultimatum... 2. Envelopes.... 1 containing info on dealing weed and the consequences and 2 a Cv written for a job I knew he would likely get if he chose that path. 3 weeks later he chose envelope 2 and thankfully got the job which he is doing really well in.
And now this. Went for dinner tonight in suggestion of my oh .... But he just backed my son up the whole time. I partly admire him for the support.... But ... I come from a different neck of the woods where My sons behaviour is not considered 'normal'. My oh does consider it normal to a degree and this frightens me.
He had two children not far off the age of my two and I keep asking him how he would feel if it was either of his in this's position... Would he still support them the same way.
He has just gone mental at me...,, avoided the question completely and made me feel like a psycho. Told me not to sleep in our bed tonight and leave him alone?!
Why? What is so wrong about trying to associate how I feel to how he would feel with his own????
Enough. X