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Is this normal to say about sex

37 replies

Melmelmel687 · 23/08/2016 19:02

Been with my DH for two years he told me last night sex with me lasts longer before it was a min now with me he can last ten. He later said its because it was just sex before but with you it has meaning. What does everyone think to his comments?

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scrumptiouscrumpets · 25/08/2016 20:10

How do you know he liked trying new things with his previous gf? Why would he tell you this if he doesn't like trying new things with you?
His initial comment sounds like a clumsy attempt at a compliment. Ten minutes is not long if it includes foreplay, but the important thing is, are you happy with your sex life or not? It is irrelevant if other people think ten minutes is too long, too short or just right.

Missgraeme · 25/08/2016 20:24

And u married him???

HuskyLover1 · 25/08/2016 20:53

ONE minute?????????????

How can any sex last for just 60 seconds? I'm guessing that's why his previous relationships didn't last.

And even 10 minutes seems very "wham bam thank you Maam"

That said, I think he was trying to give you a compliment. But it's almost like a Sex Stealth Boast gone horribly wrong.

I guess if you are happy with your sex life, there's no harm done though. That's the big question really.

UmbongoUnchained · 25/08/2016 20:55

Jesus I'd be getting rid of him!

ALaughAMinute · 25/08/2016 21:02

Ten minutes for everything! Shock

You seriously need to teach him a few things!

Is he selfish or just inexperienced?

Melmelmel687 · 26/08/2016 11:04

I know, he has told me he did all this with prev gf i suggested dressing up he resisted so much it ended up making me feel like shit

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hellsbellsmelons · 26/08/2016 15:50

he has told me he did all this with prev gf
Wow - well isn't he a delight!????

pinkyredrose · 26/08/2016 16:06

Hope he doesn't think he's great at sex! Has he heard of foreplay?

PastoralCare · 26/08/2016 16:22

It sounds like he was trying to compliment you though I think it sounds like a Freudian slip and he was patting his own shoulder.

He probably had severe premature ejaculation issues and he might have found a way to delay it. Then he thought he might as well take the opportunity to make you part responsible for his improved endurance.

If you want things to approve (assuming you're not 100% satisfied on the sex front) you should perhaps coach to think quality instead of quantity.

LellyMcKelly · 26/08/2016 16:26

10 minutes for everything? Blimey, it takes mine 10 minutes to get my bra off. I'm buying him pliers for Christmas.

MrNoseybonk · 26/08/2016 16:46

Longer is not always better. 2 mins PIV is enough if everything has gone well before that point.

SpookyPotato · 26/08/2016 17:00

10 mins of PIV is good for me, a little bit longer is a bonus! Lots of time beforehand getting ready though... He says he can't stop himself orgasming because it feels so good. It sounds like he meant it nicely OP!

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