I will try keep this short.
I'm not happy in my relationship. I need help.
I do everything in the house and I mean everything I do shopping too I do it all and my partner just lazes in bed all day. We have a 1 yr old and he's constant attention I try and clean and he's pulling on my legs and screaming and all my partner does is shout down things like sort him out. What you done to him.
He won't help me. He makes me mad with his pathetic excuses. I ask him to put the clean washing away and he says "I don't know where it goes" or "what's the point leave it on the floor it's less hassle" "I never did it at home (with parents) so why should I do it now" he's 33 by the way.
I'm so fed up of doing everything I'm exhausted. I wish I could put on my clothes n makeup etc but I don't have the time and all he says is "you'll just blend in with others the same" or "other women manage".
I'm fed up of this. He says what I do is the woman's job too. He makes more mess and leaves it behind. Then moans and jokes about going to prostitutes because I'm not in the mood for sex. The bed is disgusting covered in fag ash and dirt and dog hairs that I sleep on the sofa.
Anytime I get any money he wants to blow it on smoking weed and crack!!
I've tried asking him to leave that this isn't working he just says that I should leave. I can't as this is my house.
We do have good times and he says he will change but reading this as I'm writing seems really bad.. But I guess this is what my life has become.