I've recently found out I am 12 weeks pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby. I broke up with him as a result of the abuse I received from him not only mentally but physically as well. He knows that I am pregnant and the last time I saw him he was really aggressive and threw furniture at me. I kept thinking he would change but he never did and never will and it's like watching a ticking time bomb waiting for his next violent outburst. I also found out he has not only a serious alcohol problem which I knew about but also a serious cocaine addiction which I didn't know about along with other drugs. On top of this he has a violent criminal record and is on a good behaviour discharge. He now wants to be a part of mine and the babies life but I don't want to risk mine or the babies wellbeing as I know he won't change. Although the baby isn't born yet, would I be wrong to restrict him for contact, especially as I don't trust him alone with the baby. I feel like stopping contact would be best but I don't want to be one of them mums who cuts their ex out of the babies life if it's not the right thing to do.