I need a little advice please.
I separated from DH at Christmas, immediate reason due to terrible debts and bailiffs arriving at door. I did not want his name on house anymore as I was too scared it could happen again. Plan was he got them under control and sorted.
He has done this and has them consolidated and so 'safer'. However the separation confirmed just how unhappy I was in the marriage, he was very EA to me. We have talked about this and he admits it was the stress he was under and he feels so terrible about the way he treated me etc. I believe this and I do see a difference in him.
However - I just don't feel I love him anymore. He is better with the children now, when he comes round it is more relaxed than when he lived here, but I am always so pleased when he leaves. He is desperate for us to be a family again and to be given the chance to make it all up to me. I just don't feel the same. He suggests counselling, does anyone have any experience of it bringing back the love? I feel maybe I'm too far down the road being by myself. If my heart is not in it is there any point, or can my heart be changed?
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Severino · 21/08/2016 07:24
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