The lies you had and lived with while your DP/H cheated

[Halfwayoranges]

Thinking back to my ex and how he's made me so suspicious of men.

What was the worst lie you later uncovered?

I am shocked and appalled that so many of these cheating men are so keen to involve the OW with their children/homes. Why?? Can anyone explain? I just don’t understand it - it's despicable.

Got engaged to the OW. Had a whole other life. I don't know what he'd have done if I hadn't found out. Bigamy maybe?

My xh was shagging a very young girl who was in our two sons circle of friends. Son 2 found out so told son 1 who sciffed but was then djing at a club they were at together so he told me!
I can never forgive him for putting our boys on that position and they hardly speak to him now 12 years later

caught him answering an email to a woman abroad where he had been working. claimed she was blackmailing him so she wouldn't show me photos that I would obviously get the wrong impression of. did find her on facebook and would have paid for the photos myself but couldn't work out how to ask. quite why she only wanted to keep in touch by email was beyond me and he couldn't come up with a reasonable explanation either. the pair are welcome to each other.

Karma - same here. Refuses to see DC but blames me. Since he left I begged him to be a father, even tried to get solicitor to write on my behalf - they told me it was pointless. Now so many years later - well DC have given up on any meaningful relationship with him. They are older teens so young adults now. And the only one to blame is him. His loss.

karma are we twins !!! apparently I left for another man....I escaped dv , he has told so many lies, they will all come back to bite him in the arse.
He has told anyone who will listen I am the guilty party ...
My dc know the truth , years of abuse, ow has no idea he is violent sex offender , she is in our house which is for sale, she also doesnt realise she is one of a long line of single parents he has met online ...vulnerable and gullible just like I was years ago.. she has a shock coming to her .