Name changed as I don't want this to overshadow another thread. It interests me in a weird sort of way as well as freaking me out.
Relationship is rubbish, being dealt with. However, he has started making sexual overtures, sometimes in the guise of a joke. We haven't had sex for years, and I do mean years. For various reasons I don't want to. This however is compounding some pictures in my head that I don't like and have kept buried for a long time and I don't want to discuss them or confront them or anything else.
I'm actually a bit freaked out by this. He's said some odd things about it, and is behaving in an odd manner. I am wondering if it's another control thing. What if it gets worse, what if he starts groping?
Sorry, just not sure how to handle things.