DP and I have been together for less than a year and a half but live together. He's wonderful overall but is not an affectionate person. He does give foot rubs, will occasionally cuddle in the morning, and sometimes kisses me on the forehead before he leaves. But his physical affection is limited. He also does not say "I love you" regularly--maybe once every month or so. He's more apt to include it in texts or notes he leaves around the house.
We did have a disagreement about cleaning duties about three months ago. He wasn't doing his fair share. He apologized for it sincerely and has done his share (and often more) since the discussion without any requests or directions from me. We also discussed the physical affection issue and, while he made an effort initially, it tapered off relatively quickly. I don't doubt that he loves me. He can write rather sweet love notes, always asks if I need things while he's out, texts throughout the day with articles or information that he thinks I'd like, and is thoughtful when making plans or on holidays. He has started asking about engagement rings--what I want most in one, style that I like, etc. I know he's serious, and I do love him. But I miss the affection that I had in previous relationships.
Has this been an issue with anyone else? How did you handle it? Can a relationship work when one person wants more affection than the other person?