I need some advice please

[MozzchopsThirty]

I've been dating a guy for 2 years.
He has lots of issues from past relationships, and childhood, I think he's probably depressed and so does he but he won't get support
I've met his children once
He's only just started the divorce/childcare process and this is causing him added stress

We went on holiday in June and he was miserable, towards the end we hardly spoke, he was just mean, never said I love you once during whole trip, or said I looked nice etc

So came back and we had a party invite, he asked me to go which was a shock as I've only ever met one of his friends, lovely I thought
Then we had a few minor gripes and he messaged saying he thought we should 'give the party a miss' in case we 'caused a scene'

Following on from this last night he unfriended me on FB stating that he didn't like me talking to my 'cheating' friend and he didn't think us being Facebook friends was going to work (he only requested me 3 weeks ago after 2 years of refusing)
He doesn't like that I'm going out with her next week as he thinks because we're not getting on then I'll cheat

Any opinions welcome
I've no fucking idea what's going on, it's like he's sabotaging the relationship constantly

[HandyWoman]

I didn't read further than 'he has lots of issues from past relationship and childhood' before thinking 'BIN'

But then I was kinda glad I did because when I read further I realised that your lives are completely separate meaning getting untangled from this loser is simple!!

Emotionally it will be painful, but it'll be like a bad tooth, the pain will go and you'll be so much better.

Therapy for you, missus...

[tipsytrifle]

You waited a year and a half for an invite to a joint occasion? Then were swooned by it? Don't tell me, open borders at your end, right? You just waited ... and waited .. to prove yourself worthy of his attention. He sounds abominable. Worth less than the time it took to write this post.

[MozzchopsThirty]

More therapy

[Tiggeryoubastard]

Mozz I advance searched you - not to quote you or read your other posts, just to check you're the old Mozz from old. It's you, and it made me sad. You're worth so much more than this. Tbf, the biggest twat on here is worth more than this loser. Wake up, you daft sod. What would you advise someone else that had posted this?

[MozzchopsThirty]

Yes I've been here many many years

[MozzchopsThirty]

Maybe I need to go back to counselling

[toadgirl]

I think you do, really.

It will save you time in the long run and your next relationship will be a lot more of what you want.

[Tiggeryoubastard]

Bugger counselling, dump the loser. Faster, and guaranteed results.

[MozzchopsThirty]

I'm saddened by it all

[toadgirl]

You need to find your anger and get fired up, Mozz.

This is your LIFE you are wasting. Doesn't it make you angry?

[Tiggeryoubastard]

Then get rid. You'll be sad for a while then get over it. You never will while you're letting this twat use you.

[MozzchopsThirty]

Yes I'm angry too
At myself and him

[Tiggeryoubastard]

Get rid and be proud of yourself instead.

[Chelazla]

I want toad girl to solve all my problems for me too!!! Fab posts!!!

[MozzchopsThirty]

So he's decided to go to party today as 'it might let me blow off some steam' and 'I don't go out much'

Fucking prick

[toadgirl]

Chelazla

Aw, thanks.

It's easier to give advice than take it, I know. You can be detached about someone else's problems in a way you never can with your own.

At the same time, I have learned so much (the hard way). I just hate seeing young women throwing away precious years on losers, abusers and users.

If I could have my time over again I'd do it all very differently, believe me.

[RandomMess]

He's clearly not ready for any sort of relationship.

Move on and find someone who is worthy of you!