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Partner and his ex! *screenshots of issue included as clicked back instead of create!"

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user1469781192 · 29/07/2016 10:18

Would love some advice xx

Partner and his ex! *screenshots of issue included as clicked back instead of create!"
Partner and his ex! *screenshots of issue included as clicked back instead of create!"
Partner and his ex! *screenshots of issue included as clicked back instead of create!"
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Offred · 29/07/2016 16:36

It absolutely is not something you are not giving him. It's him. He is lacking something - self awareness, respect for himself/others, he's insecure etc.

Emotionally healthy people do not form new relationships, even going as far as to impregnate someone else, when they are not over their ex.

Offred · 29/07/2016 16:38

And whether he is sleeping with her or not is not something you are likely to know and I don't think it is the issue. He still has an attachment to her that he is not prepared to get over, in fact he is actively fostering the attachment and that makes his relationship with you unsustainable.

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