From my other post you will see my ex has asked to perhaps try again but I don't think he knows that during the last 8 mths I have been with someone else. Anyway he called last and was kind of back tracking, saying i hurt him deeply( he left us) it was all my fault due to me having a social life and bloody Facebook?? The conversation reminded me everything would have to be his way only. He doesn't take into account the torment of silent treatment fir days on end, not knowing if I had done anything, or the fact his life was run around cannabis! After this time out he still can't see his wrongs! Sorry I just needed to vent, I miss being a family strangely, it will take time to get used to but the more I think the more I realise I can't go back to this stress.