Porn.. A question about porn?

[BeenAroundTheWorld]

Me and my partner use the same tablet.. Sometimes it synced to his phone by accident though.

I was looking at the history because we had been looking for a day out last week for a water park for us and the kids and I wanted to book tickets but couldn't remember the name.

Anyway he must have synced his phone without realising and all his history came up.
He had been looking at a lot of porn and I admit I'm generally not okay with it as a rule because I find it quite degrading and tbh he hasn't made much effort in th bedroom department with me so it upsets me when he looks at Porn.

But.... I don't make a huge deal out of it!
What really strikes me is inbetween that history there was atleast three instances in a row where he had gone on webchat live.
It said webchat live/insertname.
So this infuriated me obviously because I'm also hormonal (pregnant) I did fly of the handle and confront him.. I called him a cheat ect.

He denied ever going on live chat he said he only ever looked at porn.. Because I was pregnant and he didn't think I was in the mood. Which is a lie because he always knocks me back.
Anyway what I'm asking is.. Is it true that if you go on porn sites, does live Web cam chats pop up? Their profiles ect and if that's the case why would three separate profiles pop up.

Can I trust him?

Redtube as other posters have said, do have a LOT of pop ups.
I often find redtube so easy to click on ads, as when you click on a video your fat thumbs can easily hit a link or an ad. The pop up flashes up, you hit the back button and ta da refreshes back to the pop up and repeat cycle. But because the pop up has appeared the original page (redtube) turns into another spam page. Is plausible ive just done it then for an experiment and it was a "chat site" you know that snap chat kind of sex ad.

But giving my experience on these sites, I don't know your DP. Honestly what is your gut saying? You will know when he's lying or when he's skirting around the truth.

Men tend to like porn, specially the so called digital natives.

If you are pregnant and are naturally and understandably not interested in sex he's just going to find relief elsewhere.

So you can either pick up a fight in the middle of pregnancy which wont resolve in anything (he will always like porn) or you can treat it as a way to get his daily discharge so that he leaves in peace with that.

I think you should postpone this little pow wow until your baby is born and you are recovered from childbirth. The joy you will experience is going to completely outshine this little incident.

Again, most men like and watch porn so don't take it too personally.

I disagree that op should ignore this issue until the baby is here. Things are likely to be a lot more intensified when there's a baby around and everyone is sleep deprived.

Did you actually read the op BeenAround? It is clear from the op that despite being pregnant she is very willing to be intimate with him yet he knocks her back. Why should she have to sit back and accept him getting his rocks off to porn whilst neglecting her needs at the same time?

Sorry not BeenAround, I meant System it's late.

My gut honestly? It's saying he's lying and he was caught and is scared of opening up.
He says he won't go on again but he also now has a new phone and porn links pop up. Like virus things?
That tells me he has been watching porn and deleting his history.
Im fed up tbh.
Achicken, I'm really sorry about that I too feel that maybe the way things are going.
I really want to believe him but I've lost all trust.
I'm In a mind set now that if he can gork at girls online what's stopping him in real life and it makes me paranoid when he goes out. He doesn't really have time to cheat apart from work. But it's been known right?
Am I being niave? Or am i being stupid? I know I'm hormonal.
System I haven't gone off sex and that's no excuse. Plenty of single boys without real life partners yeah.. I just don't understand why he needs porn if he has a willing partner.
I'm creative in the bedroom so that's far from the problem.

System just one last thing because I don't want to get into an argument about whether porn is right or wrong because in my relationship it's wrong.
But... Maybe I should ask him if he wouldn't mind me buying a Dildo and pleasuring myself to compensate for what I'm not getting?
Or... If porn is so okay and men like it.. He wouldn't mind if our daughter signed up for it?

Please message me x

I absolutely hate porn and it's a massive deal breaker for me . I'm sorry op I know exactly how your feeling . Unfortunately if username comes up and profiles then he's been using live chats. 😢.

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