I've been seeing an older man for a year now (live separately now) and for the most part we have had some nice times and the kids like him. I decided to buy a house earlier on in the year and the talk of progressing things between us ie: moving in together became apparent and I liked the idea and that became the 'plan'.
Now that I've got the house and we've been busy decorating, I'm not sure that moving in together is something I want, some of the things he says fills me with dread (hes very tidy) he gets stressed easily and doesn't sleep well - I do stress but need a decent nights sleep.
We booked a holiday earlier in the year with my kids and now I'm worried about it all, I really don't know what to do, obviously I need to say something but don't know how to broach the subject..help?