Texting other women...

[Frank87]

Hi ladies,

So I have been with my new boyfriend for 18 months now and he is constantly texting other women. He doesn't have a lot of male friends so always uses that as an excuse when I have questioned him about it. He is a motorsports photographer and the girls that he texts are the lycra clad grid girls.

I have been completely patient with him and have never given him any grief on the subject until recently. He has been texting a new girl constantly. Every day and night since she has become recently single.

I did the terrible thing of looking at his phone before I was feeling really insecure about the whole thing and have seen that he has started deleting their conversations. I'm very confused about it and don't understand why he feels the need to constantly have attention from these girls. Am I not enough for him anymore?

I don't know what to do so any advice or thoughts would be hugely appreciated.

Thank you all! xx

Good luck with that.

Elspeth "He deletes messages cos they're crossing the line. Nobody deletes messages otherwise"

I do. Every few weeks I clear out my inbox on my phone. Whether it's just force of habit from the old days of little storage, I don't know, but I always do. Unless there is something really specific that needs to be kept (say, stuff to do with organising a party that hasn't yet happened, or sorting out Christmas presents among a group of friends).

But didn't he have his last chance before, when he was inappropriately texting someone else?

When you are in the early stages of your relationship it's meant to be fun and exciting and you are both so into each other.

If your man is texting another woman at this stage, the loved up stage .... then heaven help you down the line.