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Should i tell him?

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mistakemaker7 · 17/07/2016 17:36

Husband left back in October last year, we stopped communicating and marriage broke down, although we both said we loved each other.

He went a bit wild compared to what he was like, out drinking, clubbing etc, I didn't bother, not really my scene.

In January I had heard a few stories about him kissing other women, parties with other woman but not sure if sex was involved.

I got quite close to a male colleague and I slept with him Feb/Mar time.

We stayed friends, he wanted a relationship but I wasn't in the right place to offer this to him.

H and I have started speaking very slowly again and im panicking about whether I should tell him I have had sex with another man? Technically I was single as he walked out and left me but I don't think he will take this well at all.

I didn't think we would get back together but now there could be a possibility?

I have mucked up haven't I!

OP posts:
MilesHuntsWig · 19/07/2016 09:11

He sounds like a bit of a selfish arse tbh.

You don't owe him anything, what you did is none of his business, how would you feel if he told you he'd slept with someone else? Do you think he'd feel the guilt you are?

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