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Madonna76 · 17/07/2016 14:31

Following on from my post yesterday, I'd just like to say that I've not broken no contact. It's been 5 days now and I'm proud of myself. I'm having a wobble right now, but I suppose 7 years of mental emotional and physical abuse will not cure overnight. My baby is due in 3 weeks and this is giving me the driving force and strength to carry on. I keep crying, I keep falling down but I'm going to get through this hell and hopefully come out the other side stronger x

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Puff42 · 17/07/2016 21:52

Good for you, stay strong. x

ConcreteUnderpants · 17/07/2016 23:20

Keep it up, Madonna. You are doing the right thing Smile

Once that beautiful baby arrives, relish in the distraction and use his/her tiny little face as a reminder that you can't go back.
Good luck.

honeyroar · 18/07/2016 01:57

Well done, you're doing great. There is a lot of support on here if you're having a down day.x

Madonna76 · 18/07/2016 02:45

Thank you. It feels like coming off an addiction. I know I can't have anymore contact now. Just feels extra hard as I'm 36 weeks pregnant and this isn't suppose to happen is it? It's supposed to be a time when your partners there 😞 x

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KittensandKnitting · 18/07/2016 02:55

I haven't read your past thread, but think your showing amazing strength from the little I've read.

I was in an EA relationship, boardering physical towards the end for over ten years and NC was very very hard, but to give some hope for what happens next I got through it and now I'm in a very loving relationship with my DP have two beautiful "step" children (live with us 100%) and whilst our life is very difficult right now I would not swap it for one second.

Flowers for you and echo what other posters have said keep focusing on your beautiful baby and what will be a happier life moving forward

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