from a relationship where the chap was nice to me albeit early days he would get cross with strangers in front of me not just driving, but people working in shops when it wasn't their fault. I felt embarrassed and can't deal with unnecessary conflict, I will when on the rare occasions I have to but don't seek it out. On one occasion I felt scared so I've left, I felt sorry for the people on the receiving end. I liked being in a relationship after many years on my own but not if I can see it's unhealthy. He wants me back but don't feel comfortable. He knows I left an abusive relationship and can't deal with conflict, it's not a part of my life I'll ever go back to. Should I stay away as feel sad to be alone again.