One thing after the other! Does it get easier?

[Hurtandconfused2016]

So since January I feel like everything is going wrong!
Ex left for ow
I had to leave family home as was having a baby and have a toddler.
Went to a lawyer to sort out contact he then decided to blame me for him not seeing the kids. (After him telling me I'm disgusting etc etc)
His family wanted to be involved with the kids not heard from them for months!
I can't get a council house but he won't let me keep the family home on (even though I can afford it he wants his name of the mortgage)
I can't afford to rent privately
My ds never got into nursery at all.
Now ex won't respond to my lawyers letters his family have all moved town and not allowing me any contact details :(

How do the parents who aren't the residential parent get to not have to worry about anything? How is this fair??
Sorry this is probably a pointless rant just needed to get it out there!

[Hurtandconfused2016]

I am returning to work tomorrow after mat leave. So I would be able to afford the mortgage easily just not afford to give him the 5k well not right now. I would have to save up.

With the house the mortgage is less than what rent would be a lot less (nearly 200) a month less. I'm scared that I won't be able to afford to rent.

[Resilience16]

You may be entitled to some benefits, possibly housing ben,CAB will be able to give you some benefits advice.
Explore your options, you do have options, and choices. Good luck x