Mourn the end of my marriage with me

[babbinocaro]

Just this...I'm done..with the contempt, the iphone dominating our time "together", being left with all the grunt work as he exercises obsessively, putting on a face at family events as he puts on his best side and smiles/sniffs around female company, being talked down to, feeling immense sadness and not being able to share it, questioning myself, my own worth.
Just pissed off that I have to be the one to bring it to a close because after years of trying he hasn't found a soft landing..

You're not on your own.
He sounds spineless.

Sounds to me like you can do much better than this preening prick.

Celebrate the beginning of a new life. He sounds shit.

Mourn? Sounds worthy of a celebration, to me.

Is it a relief yet?
Sad, but the questions answered at last?

Don't mourn,celebrate! Good riddance to that eejit, now bring on the good times!

you've put down the oars to find you were the only one rowing the boat - you are right to stop wasting time and effort on this man

you've no doubt lost so much with this man - start thinking about all you will gain when he's out of your life

He sounds like a catch. Not.

Good on you have you told him?

Sounds like you're making the sane choice. He sounds like a complete douche. How are you feeling about it?