I have been made to feel that things are all my fault and I am a control freak.
My husband uses facebook and messenger all the time, just as I do, but he has recently updated his phone and opened another facebook a/c., messenger etc. He asked me to help him do this.
A few months ago, he and one lady 'friend', who was involved in the past with him, began to send message after message and it became to the stage that the texts would come through most of the evening and at late night time. He was also playing the game by answering her. I got really fed up of this and asked him what it was all about and that it was upsetting me. He wouldn't show me the texts and told me I was stupid and controlling. He actually threw his ipad on the floor and smashed it in front of me.
Now he has the new phone, new facebook, new messenger etc, and guess what, he has 'friended' the lady. Messages were coming through again and this time I saw two as I was messing about with the phone ( he knew I was doing this). She asked him why he had friended her again and was he going to be nice to her again, also saying that she would be very nice to him and offered him to meet her. Wow, it surprised me to say the least. I said to him about it and told him how it had upset me. He told me I was insecure, controlling and that I had a big problem. He now has decided to smash the new phone up as well.
Can someone please try and help me to understand his ways. Is it me, I am confused