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anyone else have a DH with a high sex drive ? is this normal?

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NCreggo · 09/07/2016 19:46

NC as I have a limit to how "open" I want to be with my other name!

Basically DH has a massive sex drive. I originally put it down to the culture he's from that generally they don't have sex before marriage, though he did with a girl maybe 2 times about 5 years before our marriage. So, when we married I was like "ok it's abit new to him" and tried to let him get it out of his system. It was never a problem as such, he won't force or anything just if I kiss him he will get an erection and gets uncomfortable - hence he says he doesn't like to kiss much without anything more because it leaves him uncomfy (he says this in a nice way , not any sort of blackmail!)

Anyway in the early days if we both had a day off, 5 times wasn't unusual. He says he's always been like this and used to have to masterbate a lot. 2.5 years later and he's still much the same - he will do as much as I want or "allow". He can do three times in a row without a break sometimes (it's mutual, pleas don't read this as me being used) but I'm actually now starting to worry maybe something bad is causing this. He has an erection in the night frequently (whilst asleep) and that feeling just doesn't seem to go - I think if I wanted 10 times and instigated it, he would.

Is this just a high sex drive or can it be an indication of a problem? He's doesn't look at porn or act in any sort of Pervy way at all, he's very normal, not like some sort of sex fiend Blush

OP posts:
lolstevelol · 18/02/2022 13:34

What is your culture and his out of curiosity ?

Anothernick · 18/02/2022 14:03

Well I'm a man and I can confirm that night time erections are normal, as is waking up with "morning wood." I find this is more likely if I have DTD the night before. I also become aroused by kissing or cuddling my DW and it can be frustrating but its better than NOT being aroused by her......

Tlollj · 18/02/2022 14:09

I wonder if they’re still at it.

RubyRedRoses · 18/02/2022 14:13

Ah zombie thread! How did I miss that?

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