Ex's stuff getting on my nerves

[user1467976192]

Aibu I moved in with my partner (don't really want to call him darling atm) 18 months ago, I have always hated the house one of the main reasons been it was the family home for his ex, him and their 2 children. Anyway cut a long story short I got my way and we are finally moving.
However yesterday I went into a cupboard in the bedroom to clear it out and found some of her stuff, boots, Brest pads and a blindfold. I am furious as my partner is ocd about my stuff if I leave anything lying around he moves it and calls me messy yet he is hoarding his ex's stuff, he claims he didn't know they were there and out of sight out of mind. But now I just want to leave him and move on my own

[LittleSparkes]

I'm sure of they haven't come to get it after 18 months they don't require it.

[Atenco]

Just wanted to say, in view of the reactions on this thread, that, like you, I would not like to move into the house that my partner and his ex inhabited.

[HopeArden]

I think wanting to move house is fair enough. However, given that you did agree to move into what was the ex's home, you can't really moan that some of her stuff is still there because she forgot to take it with her.

[SandyY2K]

Yeah. I don't get the destroying wedding pictures. It was their lives and their memories. Why not give them to other family members. That's childish jealousy IMO.