Feeling a bit mistreated.

[SummerRosie321]

So I'm engaged to a guy who's usually amazing bit he has his off moments. Our situation isn't great as he's on a 0 hour contract and I'm not working so we're around each other a lot. Anyway we agreed to go down town about 11 ish but he still hasn't gotten up. I went to wake him up about half hour ago and he turned over, grabbed my arm and slammed me back wards in to the wall. Enough to make me Scream in pain. Then he's just rolled back over to sleep. I'm currently laid down on my sofa feeling sorry for myself and just nwe'd a bit of a rant. Thanks for reading and sorry if I don't make sense.

I'm doing the freedom programme now and in the past. Both for my ex.

That's good

I am currently eating all the good food and wasting the milk I know I'm being petty

Hang on have i missed a whole page of this thread?

You have gone from saying you have only seen him violent 13 years ago, him being your rock- to you being on the freedom programme, him being ill with a fever and you packing your stuff and drinking all the milk.

I am confused as to how you have reached this point OP?

Rosie, how old are you ? sorry to ask

I'm on freedom programme because of ex. His dad's on his way round to get him and I'm going to stay with my dad. And I'm not going to waste the milk if no one's going to be here. Or the ice cream

I agree Kitty

We're both 2. Almost 22. We've known each other most of our lives but only been a couple since just after we turned 20 (our birthdays are same month)

I'm sorry I've not been meaning to drip feed

Sorry but none of this makes any sense, take care of yourself, I am off.

Ice cream will keep in the freezer and the milk will be fine in the fridge.
Why you feel that those things are impirtant when your bf is apparentky ill with fever and you are leaving him because of violence is beyond me

Sorry kitty it was my poor attempt at a joke. Ice creams my go to comfort food so I guess I'm just indulging myself. I'm at the point where I have no idea what Is going on with my life.

No idea whats going on with the thread!

Look OP you have gone from excusing his behaviour and worried about his gealth to leaving him all in 1 page. Maybe it us rl support you need. Go to your dads maybe speak to womens aid.

Hmm. If it's genuinely out of character for him to behave in an aggressive way, then I'd say there's a possibility that if he has a high temperature or is very ill, it could make him react irrationally to a perceived threat. (For e.g. my BIL becomes very aggressive when he is having a hypo - diabetes type 1 - and is normally the gentlest, kindest person you'll ever meet.)

However, with what you've said about off moments and you living on top of each other right now, plus the stuff about coming off anti-d's (did he do this under GP supervision?) I'd be more inclined to say this is him ramping up the abuse, and you'd be wise to walk away now.

Either way, if his dad is coming and you're going elsewhere, then he will be safe if ill, or out of your way if not. Best of luck.

I think taking some time to yourselves at the moment is sensible.