Hi, hopefully I can keep this short.. Doubt it.
I am feeling really unhappy in my relationship. My husband and I aren't intimate at all, it's been months. I have lost nearly 5 1/2 stone in the past year and get 0 comments or compliments. I feel completely unloved.
There is more to this....
My DH is terrible with money. He bought a new car and put £50k down on it without even discussing it with me. This was money we had for a deposit on a house which looks like it will never happen now. He sold the car at a loss so bye bye house.
He also sticks his head in the sand ALOT. We have had bailiffs round with permission from the courts to come in and sieze goods. We have 2 young children and luckily my parents bailed him out. He never talks to me about anything, he lies saying things are fine at work etc when clearly they aren't. I'm literally at breaking point.
My parents think I should leave with the children before things get so bad than my credit profile is hit (I work in finance) but I love him and he is an amazing dad I just don't like him very much for all the stress and upset he is causing and he never, I mean NEVER admits to being wrong, it's always someone else's fault.
My eldest is nearly 4, do I get out before they are affected?
HELP, please!
I'm fully aware this sounds all about money and quite shallow but it really goes a lot deeper. Communication, affection, attention ....
TIA