Hi,
I'm looking for advice. My partner have a 20mth son and together 4 yrs. We have been arguing alot recently. Mainly because I feel he doesn't help enough with our son and I'm knackered running after our running toddler! I dont feel like sex because I'm too tired and I feel like I'm taken for granted and all we do is argue and he insults me. Tbh I insult his behaviour not him when we argue. Anyway we haven't had sex for 5 weeks and he keeps on threatening to have an affair. Ive told him why atm I dont feel like having sex with him. I need to feel loved! I think he needs to have sex to feel loved. This argument comes up everytime we aren't getting on because I dont feel like having sex with someone who insults me. Advice please! I'm insulted further by threats and it makes me even angrier and chips away at my self esteem!