I've been married 20 years and we have one DD. My husband and I have always had an up and down relationship but always muddle through.
Recently though, my thoughts have been turning more and more negative and I really don't think I want to be in this relationship anymore. I am not happy at all.
On the outside, we appear to 'have it all'. My husband is a good man and a great father. His one downside is that he is a perfectionist and neither me or my DD are perfect. But I am not happy. I hate sex with him and sometimes I really dislike him. I know that many many times he dislikes me. I can tell by his whole demeanour and the way he talks to me.
Is there anyway out of this? Can I change my feelings? If so, how?