Struggling to get some rational perspective on this, any thoughts would be gratefully received!
OH left DS and me 4 months ago. He did some pretty dreadful things and it will never be friendly between us. Therefore I'm finding it very hard to set aside my feelings now Father's Day is coming up.
I'm planning on doing a little art activity with DS (almost 3) for him to give on Sunday. I can barely bring myself to spend a penny on him (he has left me up shit creek financially) so a card is about as much as I'm prepared to spend.
'Should' I be buying a gift? Am I letting my feelings get in the way too much and not doing the right thing, in terms of DS 'buying daddy a gift' ?
I just don't want to give exOH another reason to claim I'm unreasonable or bitter. 