He has too much precum

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Can't post in the sex forum for some reason, so I have no choice but to copy and paste this here. TMI warning.

I love giving oral sex, at least I did until I met my current partner. He is constantly oozing precum and thus giving him a blowjob is very hard work and makes me gag. With other men in the past, I've only had to swallow once and could brace myself for it, job done. But with this man, I'm constantly having to swallow this salty substance and tbh I find it really offputting. I've given him a total of one blow job and he's been urging me to repeat it ever since. I literally don't have the inclination. Finally, after being nagged about it for so long I told him the truth - that his constant precum is too much. He said receiving oral sex is more important to him than actual sex (!) and that none of his exes ever complained about it.

Where do we go from here? Any advice?

I referenced another thread in detail.
I generally think it's fine to search but not fine to repost as that's the OP's business.

But I posted a "try to get over it - here are some tips" type reply. Then realised he was a total grade A arsehole. Not just my opinion of the OP's previous thread - it's black and white.

Even if it were MN rules not to refer to another thread, I would have broken the rule and waited to be banned because I was horrified that my post might have encouraged the OP to stay with him.

If you don't like it, don't do it. Any pressure he puts on you to do something you clearly don't like is abuse.

How many exes does he have? There is a pretty big clue there and you don't need the details.

I agree with Offred. What other women do as an expectation of what you "should" be doing is a manipulation. (And him telling you what the others do have done may be a line of bull as well-you only have his word for it.)

This one is not a keeper.

Please tell me you're not still giving this asshole blow jobs?