If he says doesn't want a relationship...it means he doesn't want a relationship!

[wearymum73]

Not sure what I want to say really, but thanks to mn I finished with a guy I was seeing last night as I saw a massive red flag. I have been in ea relationships before, and I never knew the signs.
But thanks to mn I have walked away before I got more involved.
I have seen on here 'if he doesn't want a relationship....it means he doesn't want a relationship' I thought his 'l'm not sure if he wanted a relationship' meant he could want one...nope it means the same thing!
So feeling a little bit blue...but pleased that I have walked away from a potential train wreak!

Good on you!
He'll probably regret his honesty but at least you are not wasting yourself on a bloke who isn't engaging at the same emotional depth as you.

Good job! Now you're free to meet somebody worthy of your time & attention. Chin up lady x

It's harder than you think, well done.

You are so right dale it is really difficult to walk away when you have decided to open up to someone...I had been single for 6 years...so this was a huge leap for me to start dating again!

Great decision Weary, I take my hat off to you. In my experience, this statement means he does not want a relationship with you.If only this penny would have dropped with my younger self, then I would have saved myself lots of heartache and not been taken the piss out off.You've done the right thing.

Wearymum - it actually feels good doesn't it. I've just walked away from a 3 month thing. He won't commit and I am refusing to be the casual thing he wants. Have cried it out and today holding my head up high and cleaning my house. Life is to short x

'I'm not sure I want a relationship' means 'I don't want a relationship...with you.'

Good on you, OP. Onwards and upwards.

Good for you....

But to qualify it means they don't want a relationship with you.

Good for you! Don't waste your time on someone like that. X

Remember while you're dating Mr Wrong, you'll not find Mr Right. You're better than being someones down time. Good for you.