Will try to keep as brief as possible. DH been working away all month - we are missing each other a lot. I am SAHM with DD1 aged 9months. For first 3 weeks didn't really get anywhere as was trying to get a new tenant for our wee flat we rent out so doing a lot of to-ing and fro-ing between the 2. Finally got it let so to get out the city and speak to some people I went a run in car with a friend one Sunday afternoon. The following Thursday went for another run in car just DD and me for a picnic about 50 miles away. On Friday went to visit DH's friend, family and some of my family. On Sunday thought I'd go and visit my parents at their caravan but my DH phoned in the morning and lost the rag saying I was travelling around too much and spending too much on petrol. We had huge argument on phone but eventually decided that I would wait until he came back later that week and we could both go and visit my parents (the Wednesday). Now he thinks he will be in too late on the Tuesday evening to be bothered going. My parents were really looking forward to me going up and are now really looking forward to us both going up.
I can see my DH's point but I just feel that life revolves round what suits him and what he wants to do. When he was home brefly for 2 days he made sure he took part in one of his hobbies. I don't mind that at all as he works hard and we all need some chill out time.
I'm just feeling a bit hard done by. I have been on my own for a month. I have been running around bringing up child, letting flat, doing all the other stuff that needs attention. Rather than staying in moping about it I try to get out the house and I feel like I'm being told how to live my life. He knew how upset I was on Sunday and it was then we agreed that we'd visit my parents on the Wednesday. I just always feel its me who makes the concessions.
This probably all sounds really trivial. Sorry