Just before xmas dh was constantly talking about this single mum he knows through work. There were constant txt msg's and so and so said this, so and so said that and so on. I lost my rag and asked him if something was going on or if she was after him? he swore blue murder that nothing was going on, that she was just lonley as her ex left her when she got pregnant. He also suggested I meet her cos she was a nice person and her dd is only 3 months older than ours. I said that I had no interest in meeting her. He told me nothing was going on and I believed him.
This afternoon while he was in the bath something came over me and I looked at the txt msg's on his phone and there were loads addressed to her. I started reading them and initially they were harmless, but then he was going on about being sorry if he had embarresed her with the txt he had sent her. So I carried on reading. I came across a message describing a very vivid sexual dream that he had had about her. The txt was so explicit that I couldn't even finish reading it and I closed his Phone. The only thing is I didn't see whether the txt was before or after our talk and I couldn't check cos i made him delete it straight away. (he keeps all his msg's so he knows how many he has sent that month)
I confronted him about it and he was instantly apologetic, "I regretted it the moment I sent it, I very sorry, of course nothings happened, I love you very much, I would never risk losing you and dd" etc...
I believe that nothing has happened between them, but I feel so hurt and betrayed.
Am I overreacting, it was after all just a dream?