I was re-living a conversation between me and my DP to a friend today and she commented that I seem very quicky tempered and snappy, I don't think I am but I wondered what you might think.
Basically me and DP were in the kitchen, he doesnt live here at the moment as we havnt been together that long. He comments that the cooker is still clean since the last time he saw it he said it in a jokey way but I still sorta took offence.
Anyway I was washing up and he said "I cant believe you dont rinse the plates after washing them". so trying to remain calm I said "well we all do things differently..." so he said "yeah, some of us do them properly". Again he said it in a jokey way but also sarcastic. I got snappy at this point and said "yeah, some of us just get our mothers to do everything for us..." (he still lives with his mum and she does everything). I didnt say it in a particular nasty way but it was meant to shut him up (which it did!) but Im starting to wonder if maybe I did go a bit too far?
was it too nasty? he went very quiet.