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Would this mean it's over?

14 replies

Rachelhampton29 · 05/06/2016 17:12

I don't see my life with dh, I'm sometimes in love with him then I just don't want anything to do with him, it's been like this a year. I thought I could get through it and be happy but I can't and I'm just waiting for something to go wrong. Last year he contacted a local prositute and I thought we could move on but I honestly can't see forever with him. I also don't feel connected with him and sometimes sex just feels awkward. Should I walk away?

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SfaOkaySuperFurryAnimals · 05/06/2016 17:20

Personally that would be it for me, you will never trust him and life is far too short. Sorry your in this situation. Flowers

Rachelhampton29 · 05/06/2016 18:59

Thank you, I thought that would be the answer. I don't trust him at all

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peppatax · 05/06/2016 19:00

Time to move on... It's very hard to get trust back especially when you can't see yourself with him forever

Rachelhampton29 · 05/06/2016 19:03

He says he wants to be by my side forever etc tbh I feel nothing when he says it, I don't even feel excited to see him anymore and when he's unwell I can't feel sympathetic for him.

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Reindeerlily · 05/06/2016 19:05

You have to leave. Life is too short to be unhappy. I've been there, I'm now a million times happier. Flowers

Rachelhampton29 · 05/06/2016 19:07

When my grandmother was ill in hospital I went to see her and he made me feel shit when I come home because he was left with the kids and couldn't get anything done in the house. I never forget that, his own grandmother is very poorly and I can't bring myself to support him at all

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ImperialBlether · 05/06/2016 19:09

Time for him to go, I think.

Once he slept with a prostitute that would be enough for me.

Oddsocksgalore · 05/06/2016 19:23

Get free of this cheating scum op x

Finola1step · 05/06/2016 19:24

It sounds like the marriage is done.

CrazyDuchess · 05/06/2016 19:30

Yup another one agreeing there doesn't seem to be a way forward here.

Life it too short and you deserve to be happy xx

Rachelhampton29 · 05/06/2016 19:47

I think I knew deep down I just wanted to hear someone else say it....

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SandyY2K · 05/06/2016 19:59

The prostitute would end my marriage. I will never be with a man who sinks that low, it's disgusting to me.

DownstairsMixUp · 05/06/2016 20:03

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