im worried about my Mum as lately she lies (not telling the truth) about things

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what do i do about it? i dont want to fully explain why? but its mostly about her BF went out on blind dates behind her back...but ive told her "Dont lie as its your life and hope you know whats youre doing!! as she pretended that she had dumped him when she hadnt!

Is she looking for attention?

Sounds like a self=esteem issue. Try and boost her.

I can't understand why she said her BF went on dates behind her back though Do you think she maybe suspects that he has done? Have you any proof that indeed he hasn't been on dates behind her back?

Mine adds bits on to stories, but I always know. My brothers wife is the same... except when she told me my sister said something about my other SIL & I knew my sis wouldn't have said it, so I asked sis... now SIL will never lie to me again!!

my mum had got depression atm and is waiting to start counselling.
Yes in the end she rang the woman who mum kept on seeing her BF's workvan outside her shop (as she owns a shop) every single night and mum rang the shop and it all came out so mum found the truth

Oh, so he really was going out behind her back... it was the dumping him she lied about. Maybe she loves him.