I have a partner who thinks its ok to shout at my and call me name when he get in a bad mood. My baby is 12 weeks old and luckily he never does it in front of her . But he talk to me like rubbish when it suits. If I did not have my child , I would have left a long time ago. I look at him with utter hate when he does this and don't understand why he does this to me. I don't leave as I'm on maternity and worry about not having enough to support my baby. I've always been so independent and now feel trapped with a man who is just a fat overweight louse on life. He tells me he is sorry but being honest his dad treated his mum the same way. I pretend I'm happy to be here but really it's all just a show to make sure our baby has enough. My parents think the sun shines off him and his mum knows what he's like but this does not help. It's funny how everyone looking in thinks your so happy when your not.....I must be a wonderful actor!!!!