Hi all fairly new to this but need views on a relationship or for one word lack of 1.Been with my OH 10 years life is general seems ok to everyone on the outside but behind closed doors different story.I help raise step daughter she lives with us permanantly but things are not smooth sailing for me.OH is very bad tempered all the time and has been voilent we have not been intimate in over 6 years and for 1 word of putting things im lonely and fed up.I stayed because i genuinely loved him but now its fallen to me thinking i no longer love and resent him now.He walked on out me dec 15 and took his daughter .... he was adimant he wasnt coming back to me even after he said he wouldnt mind me sleeping with other men and he would even set up spare room for me to "f" who i like...OFcourse i was deeply hurt but begged him to come back he wanted me to do "ALL" the changing and he walked back through my door a week later.He fessed up to me he only came back because his daughtet was depressed not living at home.fast forward afew months till prrsent and ive done all the changing he asked for went to councilling stopped councilling becausr he wasnt comfy with me speaking to my councillor all the time as a friend and councillor...I cook and clean everyday make sure his kid goes to school and tidy up all the time to no avail they both mess the house constantly or hes on his ps4 from work.we had an incodent last night and he was screaming at me "get fucking home and clean the house etc etc before the police come" right then and there i think wow does he really see me as a cleaner or maid? Anyway im.debating my next move i havnt spoken to him since last night and tbh im still in total shock to leave or not to leave? Any advice and similiar experiences welcome xx